Quick overview
An executor’s first day is often overwhelming. The right Executor Toolkit converts confusion into a clear, prioritized set of actions designed to preserve value, prevent fraud, and set the estate on a lawful path toward distribution. Below is a practical, experience‑tested guide you can follow immediately. Where appropriate I cite federal resources and recommend professional review for state‑specific rules.
Sources and further reading: Consumer Financial Protection Bureau’s post‑death checklist and the IRS estate resources are helpful starting points (Consumer Financial Protection Bureau; IRS Estate and Gift Tax). See also FinHelp’s own primer on the Probate Process for next‑step details.
Day‑One priorities (what to do in the first 24 hours)
- Confirm and document the death
- Obtain the legal pronouncement or medical documentation if needed. The funeral home will typically request and help order certified copies of the death certificate. Plan to get multiple certified copies — commonly 6–12 — because banks, transfer agents, insurance companies, and government agencies will often require originals (Consumer Financial Protection Bureau).
- Secure physical property and critical documents
- Locate the original will, trusts, deeds, titles, and any safe‑deposit keys. If there’s a safe deposit box, do not force entry: contact the bank with the death certificate and the will; a bank can advise on access rules. Secure any residence to prevent theft or vandalism.
- Notify immediate parties
- Contact close family/beneficiaries to let them know you are acting as executor (or that the estate process has begun). Set expectations about communication frequency and a single point of contact to reduce confusion.
- Stop financial harm
- Ask primary banks and brokerage firms to place a hold or freeze on the decedent’s accounts until you consult counsel. Do not immediately cash checks made payable to the decedent unless advised by counsel.
- Begin a contact list
- Create a simple spreadsheet with names, phone numbers, emails, and notes for lawyers, accountants, insurance agents, employer HR, and institutions holding accounts. This list becomes a core part of your toolkit.
Essential documents to assemble (the backbone of the toolkit)
Keep originals where required and digital copies in a secure location. At minimum gather:
- Original will and any known codicils or trust documents.
- Certified copies of the death certificate (get several).
- Titles and deeds for real property.
- Recent bank and brokerage statements (last 12 months if possible).
- Retirement account statements and beneficiary designations.
- Life insurance policies and contact details for the insurer.
- Mortgage documents, car titles, and lease agreements.
- Tax returns for the past 3 years (helpful for preparing final income and estate tax filings).
- List of recurring bills and subscriptions (to pause or redirect).
Tip from practice: keep a single, labeled folder (digital + physical) and a short index page so you and outside advisors can find essentials fast.
Communication and governance: how to keep beneficiaries and advisors aligned
- Establish a communication protocol. Decide whether you’ll email a weekly status update, maintain a shared spreadsheet, or schedule short phone check‑ins. Clear communication reduces suspicion and litigation risk.
- Create a log of all actions and expenditures. Record date, purpose, vendor, and receipts for any estate expenses — courts will expect transparency and your attorney will need this for accounting.
Immediate legal and administrative steps
- Consult a probate attorney. Even if the estate seems small, an attorney can confirm whether probate is required and what immediate filings are necessary.
- Ask the attorney whether an estate Employer Identification Number (EIN) is needed from the IRS. Executors often need an EIN to open an estate bank account and file estate tax returns (IRS).
- Evaluate whether temporary court filings are necessary to secure assets (for example, emergency motions if someone contests access to property).
Protecting assets and preventing fraud
- Monitor and freeze credit if needed for the decedent to prevent identity theft. Consider contacting the three major credit bureaus and ask about placing a deceased notation or freeze.
- Watch for suspicious activity — unexpected bills, changed beneficiaries, or unusual withdrawals. Financial institutions can place alerts and holds when provided with certified copies of the death certificate.
Authoritative note: the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau outlines multiple fraud risks after a death and recommends verifying identity before moving funds (Consumer Financial Protection Bureau).
Digital assets and passwords
- Identify password managers, social media accounts, email, and cryptocurrency wallets. If access instructions exist (password list, legacy contact) follow the decedent’s stated wishes. If not, get counsel — online‑account rules vary and wrong actions can trigger legal liabilities.
FinHelp resource: see our guide on Planning for Digital Assets: Passwords, Keys, and Access for organizing these items in advance.
Practical day‑one checklist (printer‑friendly)
- Obtain death certificate(s) (6–12 recommended).
- Locate original will/trust documents.
- Secure residence and valuables.
- Contact funeral home and review burial/cremation instructions.
- Contact probate attorney to discuss next steps.
- Notify primary financial institutions and ask to freeze accounts.
- Make an inventory of assets and debts.
- Begin beneficiary notifications and communication plan.
- Start an estate expense log and open a secure file (digital + paper).
First week and first month priorities
- Within 7–10 days: file the will with the appropriate probate court if probate will be necessary; begin collecting statements and transferring custodial control to the estate (with counsel).
- Within 30 days: mail notices to creditors as required by state law, prepare preliminary inventory of the estate’s net worth, and consider whether to obtain professional appraisals for real property or unique assets.
Remember: timelines vary by state and by whether assets pass outside probate (joint tenancy, beneficiary designations, payable‑on‑death accounts). Review state‑specific rules with an attorney.
Common mistakes to avoid
- Don’t rush to distribute assets without legal clearance; doing so can create personal liability if a creditor later appears.
- Don’t destroy or alter the will.
- Avoid sharing sensitive account numbers or unnecessary personal data in unsecured emails — use encrypted storage when possible.
Compensation, bonding, and records
- Check the will for executor compensation guidance and review state rules; many states have statutory compensation schedules. If you plan to accept compensation, keep clear records.
- Courts sometimes require an executor bond; your attorney or the court will advise whether the estate needs one and how to secure it.
For more on choosing an appropriate executor and related duties, see FinHelp’s article on Choosing an Executor: Duties, Compensation, and Conflicts.
Final tips from practice
- Keep emotions in mind: grieving families benefit from clear, frequent updates.
- Use technology but protect it: cloud storage for copies is efficient; encrypt or password‑protect sensitive files.
- When in doubt, ask: hire counsel or a CPA for complicated assets (closely held business interests, foreign accounts, or large investment portfolios).
Disclaimer
This article is educational and based on general practices current as of 2025. It is not legal or tax advice. Laws vary by state and situations differ; consult a licensed attorney, CPA, or trusted advisor to address specific questions about an individual estate.
Authoritative sources
- Consumer Financial Protection Bureau — What to do after a loved one dies: https://www.consumerfinance.gov
- Internal Revenue Service — Estate and Gift Tax guidance; EIN for estates: https://www.irs.gov
- Social Security Administration — Reporting a death and survivor benefits: https://www.ssa.gov
(You can find state‑specific death certificate procedures at your state’s vital records office.)
If you’d like, I can convert the above day‑one checklist into a downloadable checklist or fillable spreadsheet you can use with beneficiaries and advisors.

